Following last week's post about Halloween, we had a lot of interest in the idea of giving treats to The Children's Society instead of handing out money at the door. We extended the idea from the Halloween Choice website by selling "No trick or treat thanks" posters for a minimum donation of £1 after church. We had lots of takers and will do a re-print this Sunday. Once we collect the donations, we'll send them off to The Children's Society.All this raises a question, when the doorbell rings in a couple of weeks, what will you do?
Remember:
- If you feel vulnerable or afraid, don't feel that you have to answer the door.
- If you decide to answer the door, check through the window first. A gang of hooded teenagers is a different prospect from a couple of toddlers with their parents.
- Don't be rude. Many people will find it odd that you refuse to give money to a small child but there's no need to give offence.
- A "no trick or treat, thanks" poster in the window makes it easier to say no.
- Be positive. Explain that you're not just mean but that supporting a children's charity is the best way to make a difference in children's lives.
- Give away a couple of small sweets if you like.
- Don't scare youngsters with blood-curdling warnings about satanism! There is a dark and scary side to Halloween but the doorstep is hardly the place for a subtle theological conversation. Be friendly and show that the Church is a brighter, happier place for children and families to be than they might imagine.
